Od cornbread do Kavijar - i natrag

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1925 - 1943

Nikad nisam vidio ocean dok sam bio poslan na Parris Island boot camp u Marine Corps. Od tog vremena sam bio u 43 zemlje i brojanje - jer, u dobi od 72, imam neke zanimljive projekte na vatru. No, ti projekti se pojavljuju u neparnim puta i, između, ja sam pokušava sebe zabavljati donošenjem na malo iskustva sam imao sreću da "izdržati".

Prije nekoliko godina, kada sam započeo karijeru kao "Međunarodni Gypsy" Osjetio sam da je poslovna pisma su u osnovi dosadan, a time i obično su zanemareni. Počeo sam pokušati pisati na način koji bi možda dobiti pozornost primatelja. Kao rezultat toga, tijekom godina, prijatelji i kolege su rekli "Vi trebali pisati."

Kad sam bio pre teen i teen godina sam igrao puno bejzbol i mislio da bi bilo lijepo da bude profesionalni igrač bejzbola. Kad sam bio u Kini u 1946 u US Marine Corps smo započeli baseball momčad nakon što smo poslali Japanski natrag u Japan i nije bilo mnogo učiniti. Nisam napraviti pukovnija prvu momčad, ali sam doći do šišmiš jednom protiv kolega koji je bio bacač bika olovkom za Chicago White Sox. Bacio loptu brz koja je izgledala mi je kao aspirin tableta približava na 90 milja na sat a sudac viče "Strike". Bacio drugi jedan koji me prepala na smrt - još jedan štrajk. Treći pitch došao pravo na glavu i, kao desnu ruku tijesto, trčao sam prema dolje treći osnovne linije da bi od pogibije. To je zakrivljen preko sredini ploče, sudac viče "Strike Tri".

Zatim sam shvatio da sam ne idući u biti pro bejzbol igrač.

Također tijekom mojoj teens, počeo sam svirati saksofon u lokalnim bendovima ples, a moja ambicija je bila da se strani čovjeka u jednom od mnogih dobrih bendova. To je era "Swing", a velika imena su Miller, Goodman, Dorsey i dr.

U prosincu 1942, na zrelih starosti od 17, imao sam poziv iz benda na University of North Carolina. Imali su rezervirali izlet za Božić i Novu godinu sezona i 4 njihove 5 saksofon igrača je bio izrađen. Pozvali su me i druga dva člana našeg lokalnog benda da im se pridruže. Tijekom ove turneje, a kasnije u Kini, bio sam raditi s ljudima pravi talent i shvatila sam da nisam bio idući u biti profesionalni glazbenik.

Nakon što je pročitao mnoge briljantne autora - i neke ne tako sjajno - i ja shvatiti da nikad neću biti pro u ovom području bilo - ali - ja ću napisati ovo za moje unučadi u slučaju da jednog dana, oni svibanj ištanje to znati odakle su došli. (Obično bih rekao "odakle su došli", ali sjećam se kada je Winston Churchill je šibao u parlamentu za što prijedlog na kraju rečenice. On odgovori prijekor riječima: "To je drskost s kojima neću staviti ".

Prvi put netko mi reče: "Ti bi trebao napisati" je kao rezultat moje prvo pismo Weyerhaeuser sjedište kad sam prvi put stigao u Gvatemali. Bio sam prolazio kroz datoteke kada sam stigao i otkrio sam da pisma svaki mjesec, rekao je, više ili manje "prodaje se za 1,3% više nego u istom mjesecu prošle godine. Administrativni trošak je 6,8% u odnosu na 6,7% prošle godine. Zalihe je 1.200 tona. Itd., itd. "

Budući da je biljka u Gvatemali je bila vrlo mala, po Weyerhaeuser standardima, odlučio sam da nitko ne ide na čitanje ove vrste izvješća, posebice kada je bavi mnogim tvrtkama u inozemstvu.

Moj prvi pismo bile su kako slijedi:

G. Ivan Wood

Potpredsjednik, Međunarodni

Weyerhaeuser tvrtke

Tacoma, Washington

Draga Ivana,

Kao što znate, United Fruit Company otvorio svoje kutije postrojenja i Cajas y Empaques de Guatemala samo izgubio 45% svoje poslovanje. Naravno, to stvara gubitak za mjesec dana.

Mi će se oporaviti ove što je prije moguće a pretpostavljam to je razlog zašto si me ti poslao ovdje.

Prošle srijede gerilci ubili američki ambasador i svi stranci ovdje su uplašeni S-manje. Budući da je bivši Marine, ja mislim da mogu to podnijeti.

Ja sam počela da se prilagode kulturnim sporo mijenjaju. Kada sam stigao sam primjetio da sve kuće je zid oko njih i travnjak i vrt su u taj spoj.

Pretpostavio sam je to za zaštitu, što je djelomično točno, ali je više praktičan razlog za postojanje.

Gvatemala je kišno razdoblje od šest mjeseci, a suha sezona za šest mjeseci. Suhe sezone uzrokuje ekstremne nestašica vode i pasmina bakterije.

Većina ljudi misli da je problem s vodom nedostatak je da nema pitke vode. Tu je uvijek piva, koks i soda vodu za piće. Stvarni problem je u tome što ne možete flush WC, ali jedno vrijeme.

Živjeti u kući s tri osobe i sluškinju kada bakterije su nanijeli svima s "zelena jabuka brzi korak", i samo biti u mogućnosti za ispiranje WC-jednom, iznad i izvan poziv dužnosti.

Bilo je to u ovom trenutku da sam shvatio vrijednost zid za privatnost i praktičnu primjenu sve lijepe drveća i grmlja u vrtu.

Moja mačka, koja je imala puno iskustva u ovu vrstu stvar, došao u drugi.

Pozdrav,

MB Tilson

Asheville, NC

Možda je naslov ovog malog poslanica zbunjujuće - neka mi pojasniti.

Rođen sam u Asheville, NC u 1925. Moja obitelj je bila za "srednjim prihodima." - Ne treba brkati s "srednje klase" Sine moj, Bill, u svoju tezu za magisterij u arhitekturi napisao "nakon duge i zanimljive djetinjstva" - Želio bih da policajac taj izraz jer ja sam imao dugo i zanimljivo djetinjstvo - ali, kao srednjim prihodima južnom obitelji, jeli smo pržena piletina i cornbread. To će biti godina prije nego što sam ikada imao koktel od škampa i kavijara - ali oni su dobri!

I sada, nakon odlaska u mirovinu, imamo vratio cornbread. Uz malo sreće, malo više truda i malo više godina, možda, poput General MacArthur, a mi ćemo se vratiti.

Veliki jazz pjevačica, Pearl Bailey je jednom rekao: "Ja sam bio siromašan i sam bio bogat i bogat je bolje".

Ako je moja priča je zanimljivo to je samo zbog zanimljivih ljudi s kojima sam povezana. Iz tog razloga, ja ću nabrojati mnoge priče, neke bez navođenja imena "kako bi zaštitili nije tako nevina".

Ako ja boravim na prošlost više nego budućnost to je zato jer ima više bivših nego drugi.

Mislim da je mjesto za početak je na početku. Rođen sam u Asheville, NC i pod nazivom Melvin Blalock Tilson Jr. To je dovoljan razlog za mene da dobije nadimak "Charlie", koji je zaglavi sa mnom tijekom godina.

Moja Majka, Marija Reagana, bio je najmlađi od 8 djece JJ Reagan i Carolyn Pickens od Weaverville, NC - metropola od 500 ljudi, od kojih je većina obratio kao "Cousin" ili "teta" ili "Dundo", iako postoji svibanj nisu obiteljske veze. To je znak poštovanja u to vrijeme. Također je došao u ruci u čudne načine. Ujak Frank Weaver se sjediti na klupi na Main Street. Budući da je stečen malo krugu oko sredini, on nije mogao zip njegove hlače svi put gore. Kasnije, kada je jedan od muških članova obitelji neće zaboraviti da rajsfešlusom smo imali samo reći "Halo, Ujak Frank", a počinitelj je odmah shvatio što je zaboravio.

Papa Reagan, kao što se zove naš djed, bio je poznat kao "8. rang matematičar u SAD-u." To je bio prihvaćen i to pojavio u nekrologu. Ali - na oko 10 godina, počeo sam sebe pitati: "Kako ocjenjujete matematičara?" Udaranje prvak izračunava se pregleda vs puta na palicu. Valedictorian određuje se zbroj ocjena, ali kako ćete čin mathematicians?

Kako sam odrastao, mislim da sam shvatio kako je to naslov evoluirala.

The Odd Fellows Hall was the local gathering spot and social club for the men in Weaverville. Here they could chew tobacco and play dominos. I don't really understand the game but I do know that the way they played it, it was a mathematical exercise. Papa usually won because he was good. He corresponded with professors from Yale and Harvard and they sent each other problems to solve. It was said that he would jump up in the middle of the night, write the answer to a problem on his night shirt, and go back to sleep, but – this still does not answer the ranking.

I visualize that, after being thoroughly beaten by “Fessor” Reagan, one of the group probably said “Fessor is really smart. He must be the best mathematician in the country”. And another replied “Well, I don't know, there's that Einstein feller and he's pretty smart”. And, after a discussion, they agreed that maybe he was not number one but he must be number 8. That is my theory but maybe he was number 3 – who knows?

Since college professors were paid even worse then than they are now, Papa Reagan was also a surveyor and he had a nursery and a small farm. He owned Hamburg Mountain which was behind his house and, although it was small compared to real mountains, it did have fruit trees, farm land and pasture land. He also had a smoke house where country hams were cured. This remains my favorite meat.

On je pročitao Luther Burbank, pretpostavljam, jer je eksperimentirao sa cijepljenjem voćaka. Ako je moja memorija me služi ispravno nakon svih ovih godina, imao je jedno stablo koje je jabuke, kruške, trešnje i breskve na istom stablu. Ne mislim da ovaj nastavak, ali za godinu u kojoj je cijepljena, svi plodovi su jestivi.

Mama Reagan je bio Bog bojeći dama stare škole - potomak duge linije propovjednika metodističke. Sjećam se da je jedan u nedjelju, Papa Reagan uvukla off štali slušati World Series na radiju (nije bilo TV tada). Mama ga je užasno berated za kršenje subote. Papa je odgovorio "Ali nitko me mogli vidjeti". Za koji Mama je odgovorio: "Gospodin mogao vidjeti."

Često, kada sam bio vrlo mlad, sve moje majke braća i sestre i njihova djeca će imati večeru (to je bio obrok sredinom dana) na Reagana kući. Zbog velikog broja, mi djeca jeli u drugoj tablici. Ona je ovdje da sam razvio odbojnost prema tortu. Mama Reagan je kokos torta je bila suha kao pustinja Sahara, a težina oko 8 funti po komad. Moja majka se činilo da su naslijedili ovu veliku vještinu u kuhanju, tako nikad u mom životu sam ikada rekao da se moj Dragi Ann: "Zašto ne možete kuhati poput moje majke?"

Ne želim da se nastane na Papa Reagan, ali sam mogao ići na i na. Dakle - samo još par stvari.

Nakon što on i njegovi sinovi, najmlađi u to vrijeme biti oko 6 godina, idu do Hamburga Mountain popraviti neke ograde. Najmlađi, mislim da je to "propovijedati", bio je do naprijed s nekoliko drugih, a Papa je bio neki način iza. Odjednom je krv curdling vrištati, i tata počeo trčati gore planina. On je mislio da je strašna tragedija i povikao "Što se dogodilo?" Najstarija koji je bio gore sa "propovijedati" (mislim da je Grady) viknu natrag "on je ispao čekić na njegov nožni prst."

Papa odgovorio deranja leđa "Uzmi da je čekić i ubiti tog dječaka!" Ovo me sada podsjeća na rutinu Bill Cosby gdje je njegov supruga je rekao, po povratku s posla: "Idi gore stepenicama i ubiti taj dječak."

Mama Reagan pala i slomila kuk dok sam bio daleko u Marine Corps. Postala je senilan, kao što smo rekli onda, ali sada znam da je Alzheimerova bolest. Nažalost, ona je umrla prije nego što sam se vratio iz Kine.

Papa Reagan je nastavio za mnogo godina, ali više je ubio automobil dok je prelazio autocestu. Automobil je pokreće medeni mjesec par, i naravno, oni su bili devastirani. Danas, obitelj vjerojatno bi tužili i zahtijevali velike svote. U one dane, i nadam se da ćemo se vratiti na ove moral, moje majke obitelji ispričao par, objasnio je da u 85 godina nije vidio ili čuo previše dobro i oni su ni na koji način odgovoran.

Dio sam volio najviše, i nadam se da oponašati, je da je navodno na njegov način da se vidi njegova djevojka prijatelj. (Sva prava Annie, izađite smirking, znam da ste mislili na napjev Georgea Gershwina "To nije nužno tako", u kojoj je stihove reći: "Metuzalem je živio 900 godina, ali ono što je korištenje Livin 'kada nema gal će dati u nema čovjeka koji je 900 godina. ") mogu sanjati ne mogu?

Sada, neka je trčanje brzo kroz moje majke generacije Reagan klana:

Najstarija je bila Anna Lee (mi djeca ju je nazvao "ključ") - ako je ona bila živa ona bi me mogli ubiti zbog ovim riječima jer je bila glumica, a time i, sasvim uzalud. Ona nikad nije došao na Broadway, ali ona je studija u Bostonu, a bio je aktivan u lokalnoj i regionalnoj igra. Mislim da joj je zadnji put proizvodnje pod nazivom "k ovih brda", koji je bio kronika Cherokee Indijanaca. Ona je igrao u to za nekoliko godina i također je glumio u uspješnu igru pod nazivom "zategnuto Britches", koji je napisao Hubert Hayes, a dramski pisac iz University of North Carolina.

Ključne kći Marija Madeline. Budući da Ključni je 20 godina starija od moje majke, mama Marija i Madeline (Mana), zapravo je odrastao zajedno. To vjerojatno zvuči kao stari strip "Mountain Boys" Gdje 6 'visok, sačmarica totin' Bootleggers imao ujak zove Rufe. Stric Rufe bio u pelenama i bio je oko 6 mjeseci stara - ali to je način na koji je u starim danima prije planiranja obitelji.

Ključne oženio Scroup stilova (Ne volim te imena?)

Alma (koji smo nazvali Tante) je medicinska sestra. Udala se za odvjetnika i živio u High Point, NC Njezin suprug, koji se pod nazivom "Uncle Nobe", a ime je dobio Xenobious Walker. Nakon što sam saznao njegovo pravo ime, Melvin nije zvuk tako loše.

Moja majka Marija, jedan s glazbenog talenta. Bila je solistica u metodističke crkve godinama, a nepoznata većini ljudi, ona je pjevala na pogrebima za ono što mi danas zovemo "beskućnici". Kad sam pronašao ovo, bio sam ponosan.

Moje majčinske stričevi bili su:

Grady - bio u vojsci u Prvom svjetskom ratu a možda je bio preteča USO. On je bio na prvim linijama fronta u Francuskoj, a zatim je napisao neke pjesme o ratu i bio je poslan oko zabavljati vojnike kad su bili na odmorištima. On je napisao pjesmu pod nazivom "krvavog rata", koji je kasnije objavljen, ovo je jednostavna pjesma s mnogim stihovima odnosi se na vrijeme i ja se to mnogo godina kasnije pisati parodije za naše prijatelje.

Kasnije je bio predsjednik županijskog odbora povjerenika. To je politički posao i očito važno. U to vrijeme nije bilo republikanaca u koještarija županiji ili možda ne u Sjevernoj Karolini, ali nije bilo žestoke konkurencije. Dvije frakcije bile poznate kao "Ring" i "Anti Ring". Prsten je bio pod kontrolom Deacon Greene. On nikada nije održao izabrani ured i on je živio u hotelu Langren, ali ništa se nije dogodilo bez odobrenja đakona. Grady je konačno poražen, a ja stvarno ne znam što je učinio nakon toga. Ja znam da je teta Grace, njegova supruga, radila je u Ivey je robna kuća. Možda Grady nikad nije ništa nakon toga.

Njegovi sinovi bili su Grady, Jr. i Gordon. Grady Jr. je odličan bas glas, kao što je činio njegov otac i pjevala u crkvenom zboru. Posljednje što sam čuo, on je radio za branitelja uprave. Gordon je imao košarku stipendiju za UNC i ja sam ga vidio posljednji put u Chapel Hillu. Imao sam se vratio iz Kine te je korištenje GI Bill završiti moje obrazovanje i on, kao mlađi, upravo ušao UNC. Posljednje što sam čuo od njega, on je bio u diplomatskoj službi u Pakistanu.

Rob - Pretpostavljam da mu je ime Robert, ali nisam znao ništa, ali "Dundo Rob". Rob je bio inspektor ili, kao što smo sada reći, građevinski inženjer. On je bio vrlo uspješan i sagradio kuću neposredno iza Mama i tata Reagan. On i teta (izgovara mi to Ant) Belle je imao dvoje djece - Bobby i Gloria (Glo). Bobby htjela biti stomatolog, ali iz nekog razloga nikada nije napravio. Posljednje što sam čuo od njega, on je bio prodavač za Morton Salt. Glo oženjen čovjek koji je auto u Virginia Beach. Kad sam bio u Dominikanskoj Republici, ona i njezin suprug (sramim da [MT1] Ne mogu se sjetiti njegovo ime) je došao do Casa de Campo za golf odmor. Lijepi ljudi.

Ernest - Uncle "Erna" je knjiga čuvar. On i teta Zola (nije mi imamo neke velike imena?) Imao 4 djece. Jedan je bio retardirani, a puštena je u "kući". Najstariji je Elaine, divan dama. Udala Marine kapetan i, kada sam bio u Camp Lejeune u marincima, pozvali su me na njihovu kuću za večeru. Nakon toga, otišli smo u kino, ali, budući da sam bio PFC. i on je bio kapetan, mi odvojeni. Sjedio sam niz stepenice i oni sjede na balkonu u časnika sekciji. Danas to vjerojatno će se zvati "diskriminacija", ali mislim da je ispravan.

Ernest Jr. (BUD) i Jim su se dva dječaka. Bud i ja, biće iste dobi, vjerojatno su bili bliži nego bilo tko od mojih muških rođaka. Bud je pripovjedač majstor vic, osobito prljavog, ali smiješno, viceva. On je završio kao mornarice kapelan - i prilično dobar. Nažalost, umro je u svojim ranim 40's. Nikada ga više nisam vidio nakon što smo napustili Chapel Hillu.

Jim je bio Marine, kao što su I. Ali, budući da je razlika u godinama, nisam bio blizu njega. Posljednji kontakt sam imao je bio iz Jacksonville, Florida Jim je pretrpio teški slučaj artritisa i za veći dio vremena bio je zatvoren u VA bolnice u Gainesville, Florida je započeo kronika Reagan klana. Ja ću pokušati pronaći ako je još uvijek na to, iako nemam telefonski broj.

Carol - Mi smo ga zvali "ujak propovijedati". On je dobio to ime jer je, kao dijete on se koristi da ide u šumu i propovijedati propovijedi. To očito došao iz posjeta povezanih "sklop jahače" koji su bili dio Mama Reagan obitelji. Propovijedaj braku "teta Ann" - maleni dama koji je radio kao brojač banke u lokalnoj banci. Ona je bila žrtva pljačke banke, zajedno s sačmarice i maske, u lokalne banke. To je vrijeme John Dillinger i da li je Dillinger ili neki drugi sitni lopov, ne znamo - ali to je uzbudljivo da mislim da je to stari John.

Njihovo jedino dijete je Suzy. Suzy je bila oko 2 godine mlađi od mene, tako da nismo bili blizu kad smo bili mladi. Međutim, nepoznatih razloga na oba od nas, i iako mi nikada vidjeli jedni druge više nego jednom ili dva puta kad smo odrasli, postali smo "omiljeni rođaci". Suzy oženio veliki tip koji je bio izvršni za Malcom McLean u Sealand. Posljednje što sam čuo su živjeli u Connecticutu i njihov najstariji sin bio je zastava u mornarici. Ću ih pokušati pronaći također.

Scruggs - (Ovi nazivi bolje svih vremena). Ujak Scruggs braku "tete Myrtle". Preselio se u Evansville, Indiana prije nego sam se rodio tako da sam ga vidio samo na rijetke posjete Weaverville. Imali su jednog sina, Jim. Sjećam ga samo zato, na jednom dva mjeseci boravka u Weaverville tijekom ljeta, on je počeo da se ugojiti. Nitko nije mogao shvatiti dok On je primijetio "To je najbolji mlijeka sam ikada imao u mom životu". Mama i tata Reagan imao krava i zadržao bacač čiste kremu u hladnjak. Jim je pio nekoliko čaša na dan. Razgovor o kolesterol! Posljednje što sam čuo Jima, on je bio u Las Vegasu.

Ukratko, netko je jednom rekao moj Majčina braća "Dva su ozbiljne, čvrste građana. Jedan volio viski, jedna žena i volio druge svidjela oba. "Nepotrebno je reći, neću se ih prepoznati po imenu.

Dosta o mojoj Majci obitelji. Let's move on to my Father's side.

I never knew my paternal Grandfather because he died when my Father was 14. For this reason, Dad never finished school – I think he went to the 7th grade.  He began to drive the buggy for my Great Uncle, Dr. Weaver and this was the origin of my Father's nickname “Little Doc” which later evolved into simply “Doc.”

My paternal Grandmother was Essie Penland. I don't think Essie was the real name but that's all we ever knew. This was before the days of social security so, when Miss Essie could no longer run her boarding house, she came to live with us. The only things I remember about “Granny Tilson” were when she sat me on her lap, when I was about 7 years old, and read me bible stories. Also, she used to take me on the streetcar to places where they served watermelon in the summer time. I still love watermelon. Granny died while she was living with us. I have no idea where she slept because we had a 2 bedroom house. My dear sister “Til” and I shared one bedroom, my parents had the other. Where did Granny sleep? – I never thought about this until this moment!!

George and Essie had 5 children. The oldest was my Uncle George, then my Dad Melvin, then Bertha, Edgar and Harriet. This side of the family had great names also.

George married Aunt Marian – a Yankee no less. They had no children but had a Scottie dog. They came to the house one night, distraught, because the dog had died. They felt guilty because they had not had his tonsils removed in time. The rest of us, whose dogs came from the pound or off the street and ate table scraps, could not envision a dog going to the doctor for an operation.

Nedavno sam čuo od mog bratića Fred Reeves da teta marijanska još uvijek bio živ u dobi od 97, ali stvarno nije bio "s njom". Rezervni mi ovo.

Edgar je bio crna ovca. On je oženjen i imao jedno dijete, Bertha Ann. Bertha Ann živio nekoliko godina s Harriet. Što se dogodilo s njom kasnije, ja nemam pojma.

Bertha je super. Mi ju je zvao tetom Tillie (nadimak njezin suprug, Fred, dao joj - proizlazi iz Tilson). Oni su imali lijepu kuću s tenisko igralište u Weaverville i 2 kabine u planinama na Reems Creeku. Ova nekretnina dotiču kamp Sequoia koji je bio, a možda i još uvijek je, ekskluzivni kamp za dječake i djevojčice. Fred je radio u banci u Weaverville i kad sve banke počele su podbacivati tijekom depresije, bio je, kako možemo reći danas? - Smanjena?

Nakon toga, oni prodaju (ili izgubio) kuća u Weaverville i preselio se u kabine. Oni su živjeli u jednom iznajmljenom i druge. Oni su bili log kabine, napravio na starinski način, ali su vrlo udobna, osim da je hrana bila sačuvana u proljeće kući, a vodovod je lijepo od zgrada okružena cvijećem koje smo prozvali "Johnny House ljiljani".

Njihovo dvoje djece su bili Fred (Junie) i Mary Elizabeth (Libba).

Nedavno sam razgovarao s Fredom i on upravo je proslavio svoj 80. rođendan. On je rekao da nije imao puno prijatelja jer se nije kao stari ljudi. Fred svirao na tenis tima u NC državi, možda rezultat da sud u svojoj kući. On je bio kapetan u Air Force u Drugom svjetskom ratu i nakon rata preselio u Kaliforniju i ušao u poslovima s nekretninama. Mislim da on još uvijek dabbles u tome. Nadam se da ću ga vidjeti ako moje stambeni projekt u Tijuani razvija jer živi u blizini San Diega.

Libba oženio časnik trgovačke mornarice i imao jednu kćerku koja je pod nazivom "Eva", jer je bila prva djevojka u svojoj supruzi obitelji za nekoliko generacija. Ja sam izgubila dodir s njima u potpunosti i, budući da je stariji od Libba Fred, možda ona više nije živ.

Harriet oženjen John Brady, inženjer. Oni su proizvedeni dva sina, Ivana i George. John i Harriet su se razveli i Harriet završio u New Yorku radeći za vladu. Ona je preminula prije nekoliko godina. George živi negdje u Novoj Engleskoj, ali John je umro vrlo mlad. Bio je urednik novina u Franklin, NC - grad vrlo sličan Weaverville.

Imao sam posebnu naklonost za tetka Tillie jer, kad sam imao oko 10 godina mogu koristiti za uspon na drveće iza jedan od njezinih kabina i hodati na veliki vinove loze, koja je porasla u tih stabala. Ona ne bih dopustio Uncle Fred izrezati ovih vinove loze, jer "Charlie voli da se penju na njih".

JA je uzeo moj lijep Ann na kabinu kada smo sudjelovali - neposredno prije nego što smo bili u braku. Nisam shvaćao da ona nije bila sa svojom planinama, kao što sam bio, te sam inzistirao da se ljuljačka na vinove loze preko potoka. Ona rezati nogu u tom procesu, a ovo joj je bio posljednji pothvat na vinove loze. Ona je, međutim, ići spavati na ljuljački na verandi i stvarno opušten, tako da nije bio potpuni gubitak.

Sada - nakon svih tih ljudi, zajedno dolazi "malo Melvin". Rođen sam na 4 sječnja 1925 i to mi je hit jučer, nakon gledanja prerane smrti princeze Diane i sestra Maria Teresa, koja sestra Tereza koja je umrla u dobi od 87 rođen je samo 15 godina prije mene. Morao sam požuriti bolje da završi ovaj kronika!

Došao sam vjerovati - dobro, možda ne vjeruju, ali biti zainteresirani za opće značajke Zodijaka. Ja sam Jarac i imaju sve osobine općenito pripisuju nas "Koze". Udala sam se Leo i ona ima sve karakteristike "Lioness" - princeza u džungli.

Budući da smo Capricorns prilično uporan, uporan, a ponekad naivna osoba, moja prva sjećanja su dolikuje. Jednom sam bio igranje u polje pored naše kuće u Weaverville, gdje smo se preselili ubrzo nakon što sam se rodio, a ja sam stao u post otvor . Moj mali noga je otišao dolje, ali je istaknuo poleglim provode u dnu, tako da ne bi izaći. Drugi, možda svjetliju i više emocionalno nego bih screamed za pomoć. Ja sam, kao tupa Jarac, stajao je tiho dok sam bio propustio. Moja majka, koja nije bila toliko bezosjećajnosti, došao vrištanje u polje i mi iskopali sa srebrnim žlicom.

Moj sljedeći sjećanja je da sam imao ljubimac koza. Moj otac je sagradio vagona u obliku vatra kamion i koza može povući ovu. Moji rođaci, koji su bili stariji, i očito pametniji od mene, će reći: "Charlie, ti ostati ovdje i čekati sve hitne pozive koji dolaze u. Mi ćemo uzeti vagona i istražiti svaku požari koji se događaju. "Iako sam im vjerovao u to vrijeme, ovo mi je čuva od toga da bude" nagovorio na "mnogo puta od tada.

Moj sljedeći sjećanje je kada smo se preselili natrag u Asheville i iznajmljuje kuću na Merrimon Avenue. Bio sam tek oko 6 godina, ali ja ne sjećam da sam imao male crne ploče na stalak u svojoj sobi, ali sam imala samo jedan komad bijele krede s kojima se izvući. U nedjeljnoj školi u Srednjoj Methodist Church, Jug, bilo je u boji krede. Ja ga ukrali!

Budući da je vrlo pametan, ja sakrio to u mojoj sobi dok o iduće srijede. Onda - dok je igrao u dvorištu sam spotaknuo i pao. JA je došao gore sa zemlje i rekao mojim roditeljima koji su na prednjem trijemu "Gledajte, ja spotaknuo i pao te je sletio na polje u boji krede".

They of course knew that the chalk had been missing from Sunday school for 3 days and were astute enough to wait for developments. After telling me how lucky I was to find this chalk and with discreet questions as to how it might have gotten there – I confessed. I returned the chalk the next Sunday and I have never stolen anything since. Perhaps if I had gotten away with this or if I had been incarcerated at age six, I would have been a confirmed criminal.

Incidentally, Central Methodist Episcopal Church- South meant that there were no blacks in the congregation.

My Dad, who was known as somewhat of a humorist, used to say that we moved every time the rent came due. This was not true but when I was about eight years old we moved to 6 Coleman Avenue. This was about a mile away but it meant that I would have a complete new set of friends because it was another neighborhood.

I have many memories of 6 Coleman Avenue. It was a small house, perhaps 700 ft2 on the principle floor but with a basement and a garage. We had two bedrooms. Mom and Dad had one and I shared the second with my sister. Where Granny Tilson slept when she came to live with us, I do not know.

Moj Otac je uvijek željela imati "Hoss", jer mislim da je bio zaluđen sa Starog Zapada i kauboja u filmovima. The Recreation Park je jedan od 1930-ih tematski parkovi koji je zoološki vrt, vrteška, čekić automobila, Ferris wheel itd. Ona je također imala ponija ride. Tata je utvrdio da su vlasnici ponija vožnja će pustiti bilo tko imati poni da bi tijekom zimske sezone kada je park bio je zatvoren, ako su ga hranili i gledao nakon njega.

On je dobio mene ponija. Moja majka i sestra nisu bili previše oduševljeni, ali tata, ja i moji prijatelji su bili!

Iako je naša kuća bila mala, puno se vratio oko 300 metara. Mi smo bili u iznajmljenom imovine, ali tata je uzeo dolje garažna vrata te ih koriste za strane stabilne za moj poni "Phyllis" - AKA "Phil".

To je nevjerojatno koliko prijatelja imate kada imate ponija.

Phil se koriste kako bi dobili labav i otkad sam ostavio za gimnaziju prije moja sestra lijevo za srednju školu, ona je morala otići do Merrimon Avenue dobiti Phil i njezin vratiti u stabilno. Phil se uvijek činilo da korak Til nogu i, ne znajući o konjima i njima hating također, Til nisu znali da sve što morate učiniti je pokupiti gležanj i podignite stopala. Mislim da je ona naučila neke vulgarne riječi u ovom iskustvu.

U isto vrijeme, imao sam pas, mačka, minijaturna kokoš i pijetao minijaturna. Pas je imao 6 mladunaca, mačka imala 8 mačići i bantams izleći leglo od 12 godina. Moja majka je bila vrlo tolerantan.

U to vrijeme sam počeo moj prvi komercijalni pothvat. Ja prodao časopisi od vrata do vrata - Saturday Evening Post i Ladies Home Journal. Nisam bio jako dobar u ovom pa mi nije bila uspješna. Jedina gora nego što sam bio moj susjed, Billy Charnuckle. Njegov pristup je bio da kaže kome odgovorio na vratima: "Vi ne želite kupiti bilo časopisi vam je činiti?" Oni bi, naravno, reći "ne" i zatvorio vrata.

Kad sam bio oko 11 smo se preselili u Avenue Murdoch. To je omiljeno mjesto sam živio dok je odrastao. Bila je to mala kuća - jedan kat sa podrumom, dio koji je garaža. To je 3 spavaće sobe, od kojih su dva nekoć veliki nedjelja trijem tako da su prozori sve oko sebe. Off od dnevnog boravka je veliki ormar za pohranu s izlazom na mali balkon. Izabrao sam ovaj za moju sobu, a ne jedne spavaće sobe. To je soba za mog kreveta, puno polica, a ne puno više, ali to je bila privatna i udoban. On je imao nekoliko nedostataka nije za mene nego za druge. Moja sestra, kao četiri godine stariji, često je imao tvrtku i datume. Oni su u dnevnom boravku, a da se iz moje "skrivanje" u kupaonicu, bilo je potrebno proći kroz dnevni boravak. Otišao sam u krevet rano, jer sam je nosio novinama na jutro put i za mene da biste dobili gore oko 11:00 i skitati kroz dnevni boravak u moje donje rublje je prilično neugodna za moju sestru, osobito kad je bio težak da impresionira Najnoviji "ljubav svog života".

Glavni razlog zbog kojeg sam se svidjela ova kuća bila u susjedstvu. To je bio poznat kao "Norwood Park", a tu je i obilje djecu svih uzrasta. Preko puta moje kuće je prostor koji smo nazvali "The Woods". To je bio možda oko 5 hektara stabala uz potok prikazivati kroz nju i polju kukuruza na drugoj strani. Svako ljeto smo izgradili branu preko ovog potoka i stvorio kupanje rupa. To je bio pod nadzorom starijih članova skupine koji su bili najmanje 15 godina. Ostatak od nas, u rasponu dobi od 8 do 14, bili su zajedničkog rada. Creek je možda 8 metara široka i oko 1 ili 2 noge duboko u toku normalnog puta. Naš postupak, što nije loše za skupinu djece, bio je kako slijedi:

Mi izrezati dolje visok stablo - možda 30 metra, s promjerom od možda 12 ili 15 inča. To smo položili preko potoka do obale potoka, koji su oko 5 metara iznad razine potoka. We staked ovaj log dolje na oba kraja, tako da to ne može kretati u oba smjera.

Mi smo tada počeli gurati cijelom susjedstvu i bilo u blizini gradilišta za drvo koji nije bio vezan dolje. Kao što sam pisati ovaj sam shvatiti da smo vjerojatno bili krađa, ali mi nikada misao branje gore labav komad drvene građe kao i krađe, iako mi je ovo obično noću.

These planks were then put at about a 45 degree angle, one end nailed to the log across the “canyon” and the other end in the dirt in what would be the pool.  We started at each end and worked our way to the middle, leaving a space for the creek to flow through. Underneath the lumber we piled rocks to support the planks and on top of the planks we piled dirt. This dirt was dug out of the creek bed and the sides to make the pool deeper and larger.

After several weeks of work the dam was complete except for a section in the center about 3 feet wide. This was the time to mobilize all of the kids who had worked on it. (You could not swim in the pond unless you participated in the construction). Everyone arrived at about 7am with shovels, picks, hammers and much excitement. When the planks were placed in the center we all began to shovel like mad to cover the remaining space. This was usually accomplished by 9 am and then came the waiting for the dam to overflow.

It usually took about 5 days for the pond to fill up and, of course, during this time there was no water downstream because we had closed off the entire flow. We put twigs in the bank at water level and checked them the next day to see how many inches the water had risen. From this primitive measurement, we could guess about when the water would flow over the dam.

Potoka počeli s izvora na planini Sunset Mountain i tekla kroz Asheville Country Club golf ispred Grove Park Inn. Nakon što je prošao naš kupanje rupa, to meandered kroz predgrađa i oko 15 milja nizvodno, ona tekla kroz poljoprivredno zemljište. O treći dan bez vode ne bi bilo farmer šetnju uzvodno da vidi zašto mu stado nisu bili uzimajući bilo koje vode iz potoka. Znali smo da će se to dogoditi tako da smo uvijek imali nekoga na dužnost na brana, dok je punjenje (osim noću). Kada poljoprivrednik neizbježno će doći, signal će ići van i tko će doći u blizini da se izjasni s njim čekati "samo još jedan dan". "Molim vas, gospodine, nemojte razbiti naše brane". Oni nikada nisu, jer su i oni bili djeca.

Prelijevanje bio je povod za slavlje. Riječ je otišao van na cijeli susjedstvo "Brana je Going to preko Flow oko ponoći! Smo molili naši roditelji da idemo gledati i obično su pristali, a vrlo često nas prati.

Naučio sam plivati u tom plivanju rupu i, jer to je tako plitko, da mogu roniti u šalica za čaj bez udarca u dno. U rano jutro bilo je kristalno jasno, ali nakon 20 djece je uzbudljiv gore blato od dna, u kasnim poslijepodnevnim satima je tamno smeđa. Noću bismo uzeti mali komad drveta, oko 1 stopalo trg, mjesto upaljene svijeće na njemu, vezati niz na jednom rubu i plutaju u u ribnjak. Žabe, privučen svjetlom, bi skočiti gore na drva i dati ono što mislim da je bio njihov parenje poziv. To je bio tamo da sam naučila zvati žabe i to je postala veliki izvor zabave na koktel partije - pogotovo kad žaba pojavio iz bazena Country Club.

Polja na drugoj strani ribnjak iz šume nije uvijek bila zasađena u kukuruzu. Ponekad se sadi krumpir, a mi bi iskopati nekoliko, pečena ih u ugljevlju prekrivene blatom i blagdan. Mislim da je to krađa također.

Imali smo prilično veliki broj djece u susjedstvu, dovoljno blizu dobi da bude kompatibilan i bili su stvarno mogli polje bejzbol momčad i nogometna reprezentacija iz susjedstva.

U to vrijeme sam ja uzeo na novine rutu. To je možda najveći poslovno iskustvo za mlade ljude, ali to ne postoji ni danas. Ona je evoluirala, kao i sve drugo, u volumen i sada barata odrasle osobe s automobilima koji zaposliti mlade ljude ili doseljenika dostaviti na velikim površinama. Moj put je 100 klijenata u radničkoj četvrti. Oni su otišli na posao u 7:00 i željela da njihova jutro papir za 06:00. Tako - sam ustao u 4: am i završiti do 6:00, vratila na spavanje za 1 sat i ustao da idu u školu. U ljetno vrijeme kada nije bilo škole, moji prijatelji koji su također nosio radova, došao na bazen na Country Club (nismo bili članovi), a mi plivao u 6:00 u jutro. Ponekad straža bi izaći i nama prijete zbog smetanja posjeda, ali on nikada nije izvukao pištolj i otišli smo u miru.

I also got a job on the weekends as a clerk in McIntyre's Fruit Store. This was run by Joe McIntyre, his brother and a sister.  Leo, Joe's brother drove a semi trailer truck to Florida each week, returning with citrus from Indian River and Bananas from Central America which came in by boat to Miami. Nowhere else in Asheville was such fresh, quality fruit available because the supermarkets did not exist at that time. Joe also brought in exotic (for Asheville at that time) fruits and vegetables from California. These included avocados which my Mother dearly loved. Each pay day I would buy her one. At that time – 1940, they cost $1.00. I suppose that is about $20.00 today. Transportation has changed our eating habits because an avocado still costs about $1.00. At that time I hated avocados but after living overseas where they grow wild, I have developed a taste for them also – particularly in guacamole.

Since this was at the tail end of the depression, I had been taught to be very frugal – a trait I lost somewhere along the line  – and , unknown to my family I opened a savings account at the First National Bank of Asheville.  I paid my expenses from my paper route so when I received my check from McIntyre I put most of it in the bank.

I was working full time during the summer so at the end, when school started I had about $250 in the account. This was more than my Father made in a month. One day my passbook fell out of my pocket on the sofa and I did not notice it. My Mother and my Sister found this and were astounded. My Mother casually suggested that I buy some clothes for school so – there went my savings but it did help the family quite a bit because I was still growing and last years clothes did not fit.

I had now graduated from Claxton elementary school and entered High School and I loved every minute of those 4 years. I was a Freshmen for three years. No, I didn't fail – it was a quirk of fate. At that time we had only 11 grades of school. 7 were in elementary (grammar) school and 4 in High School. During the depression Junior High had closed. When I entered Lee Edwards High School I was in the 8th grade. At the end of the year, Junior High was re-opened for one grade so I was a Freshman in the 9th grade. At the end of this year a second grade was moved to Junior High so I was a Freshman in the 10th grade. I graduated at age 16 because I had skipped 1/2 a grade in grammar school. This was not because I was smart but again a quirk of fate.

Today one must be 6 years old in September to enter the first grade. When I entered school, being born in January, I entered in grade 1-A in January. When I was in the 3rd grade this system was abandoned and we had entry to school only in September. Those of us in the “middle” had to either move up 1/2 grade or move back 1/2 grade. I was moved up so I gained 6 months on most of the normal graduates.

When I started High School I carried as heavy a schedule as was allowed. Most people had a “Study Hall” but I never took one, preferring instead to take both Band and Physical Education – both of which were electives. I loved sports and played everything, but not good enough to make either the varsity or to think of an athletic scholarship to college. My Mother, being a musician, wanted me to study piano. At this time any boy who played piano or took dancing classes was a “Sissy”. I have regretted my decision to bow to peer pressure to this day.

Because of my overbite, I was assigned to the clarinet and I played a very exuberant, if not inspired 3rd clarinet in the High School band. For graduation my family gave me an alto saxophone. I had never played sax before but I loved it. I began to play in the local dance bands. The first was formed by a transfer student from New Mexico. His name was Bob Shamaskin. He was known as “The Jerk from Albuquerque” but he was a nice guy and gave me my first chance.

After this band folded I joined one of my friends from Norwood Park who had become an accomplished trumpet player. His name was Arthur Weneje. During this era the bands were named after the leader. This was before we got names like the Grateful Dead, Three Dog Night, the Rolling Stones etc.

Our first job was for the graduation at the Asheville Normal School (this was what teacher's colleges were called in those days). We all griped a bit about being paid $2.50 for the evening but Art said “Listen, these people hired us without ever hearing us. This is our first job so play as best you can and we will get other jobs.”

We were pretty good for a young band and our next job was a debutante ball at the Vanderbilt Hotel. Here I first ran into Union problems. The local musicians union threatened to boycott the Hotel Vanderbilt for hiring a non union band. This came out in the newspaper under the headlines “Local Union Wants To Kill Ambitions of Teenagers” – so they never followed through.  But – we also never got another job at the Vanderbilt.

Our next job was on the local radio. Of course we were not paid for this. But as a result, we got a job playing for a Fraternity Dance in Spartanburg , SC the idea of getting an out of state job was unbelievable , particularly since we got $5.00 each plus expenses.

The band eventually broke up for lack of work and we all played “gigs” whenever we could and people who could not get a job at other time of the year could get one at Christmas. During the Christmas season and New Year there was always work because there were perhaps 3 bands in the area and 15 parties. Many times I went on a job and the first thing we did was to shake hands with the other members of the band and say “I am pleased to meet you”.  After the audience had a few drinks, the band sounded great.

World War II had now started and, being almost of age, we were all ready to go. I joined the Marine Corps in November of 1942 at age 17 but was not called up until July of 1943 when I graduated from Biltmore Junior College (now UNC- Asheville).

For reasons which I still don't understand, I was awarded a huge dictionary at graduation from Biltmore College for being the outstanding student. I still have it somewhere. My only regret is that, being caught off guard, I did not have a proper acceptance speech. What I should have said was “Ladies and Gentlemen, Distinguished Faculty and Guests, there are only 3 reasons why I have been accorded this honor. My sister is not here tonight because she is at school in Greensboro but the other two reasons are here. Please stand up Mom and Dad.” I hope all three can hear this, where ever they are.

I joined the Boy Scouts at age 12 and this was where I learned many things, which, joined with the principals taught to me by my family, church and school is probably why I did not find it necessary to carry a gun to school and shoot at random.

Being a Capricorn, I seemed to be singled out as a leader – although I never sought this. After about 2 months into Troop 4 I was picked to be the patrol leader of the Nighthawk Patrol at age 12. This consisted of 10 other kids and was no big deal – but I learned some things. In my first year at Boy Scout Camp there was a contest among all of the Patrols. The brand new Nighthawk patrol with its brand new patrol leader quickly fell behind. At one location we had to build a fire with two matches, at another we had to tie the proper knots to move a fallen tree etc. There was a counselor at each location and as we reached the one about 3 from the end, all other patrols had finished. I said to the counselor “We might as well quit. Everyone else has finished.” He replied “There is some honor in coming in last. There is no honor in quitting.” I have come in last a lot of times since then but I never quit.

One of the volunteer jobs I had was to hold the ropes around the greens at the first Land Of The Sky professional golf tournament. The favorite was Ralph Gudhal who had just won the US Open. He did not win because a young ex caddie by the name of Ben Hogan won his first tournament there.

I did not have dramatic talent but I was interested in the theater so I joined the stage crew in high school. The Lee Edwards High in Asheville always did well in drama, as well as football, and we went to the regional competition at the University of North Carolina in Chapel Hill. Our entry was an original play, written by the drama teacher and it had a mountain theme. We on the stage crew had made the props which were the inside of a mountain cabin. One of the props had a gun rack which held a rifle. That particular prop warped on the trip down and we brought it back straight with a stage brace. Miss Welch was ecstatic with our ingenuity and we were proud. It was fine until the middle of the first act. The stage brace slipped, throwing the rifle onto the middle of the stage, almost decapitating the star of the show. For some reason, Miss Welch was no longer ecstatic and we were in the dog house – women are fickle.

After I graduated from high school I enrolled at Biltmore Junior College. The first year, 1941, at “Biltmore Tech” as we liked to call it, was situated in the first floor of the Asheville Normal School. Math had always been my easiest subject in High School and I usually did the homework, if at all, at the end of the class or when the teacher went over the homework at the beginning of the next class.  When I arrived in college I found the game plan was different. Homework was assigned and at the next class another topic was taken up. Quite often it was based on knowing what had been assigned for homework – I almost failed. I got on the ball and recovered because I remembered my experience in taking 4 semesters of Latin. I got an A, a B, a C and a D. Seeing the hand writing on the wall, I quickly switched to French class.

The second year, 1942, Biltmore Tech moved to an old orphanage. It was an ideal location for a school with several hundred people because the rooms had not been private so they were large enough for a classroom, there was office space and the yard was very large with beautiful oak trees. I had never cut a class in my life but on one gorgeous spring day, I could not resist. Instead of attending economics class, I retired to the lawn and propped myself up against one of the large oaks and let spring fever attack. In about 10 minutes Mr. Junuis Allison, the professor, brought the class outside to have class under the trees. Spotting me at the next tree he said, “Good afternoon Mr. Tilson. Would you care to join us?” My answer is rather obvious – so much for being a truant.

The male population and the faculty of Biltmore College was fast being depleted because of World War II. The math professor was called by the government for one of the agencies, the chemistry professor was hired by DuPont, the language professor (he taught both French and Spanish) was commissioned in the Navy, learned Japanese and was sent to the Pacific to de code intercepted messages and the Phys Ed teacher was called up by the Navy to train recruits.

The male student body was also being depleted by the draft. In 1942 our basketball squad consisted of 6 people. Since the PhysEd teacher had also been the coach, the ole Capricorn ended up being player/coach. Toward the end of the season, we almost won a game.

In October, 1942 we had a special assembly for the male students in which Recruiters from the various branches of service made their pitch to try to get enlistments. The Air Force outlined the glamour and excitement of flying, the Navy gave the old “see the world” bit, the Army stressed how one could learn a trade or a specialty. A Marine Captain stood up and said “I can't make the promises that the others have made. If you join the US Marine Corps you will probably get shot and wash up on the beach of some Pacific Island. But – if you are interested, I will be here as soon as the meeting ends.”

I signed up that day but was not called up until after graduation in July of 1943.

1943 – 1944

EMORY UNIVERSITY

July 1, 1943 I boarded a train for Atlanta to start my interesting time in the US Marine Corps. The Navy had started a program called “V 12″ as a preliminary to Officer Candidate School. The reason was that the armed forces were building so fast that officers and non commissioned officers cold not be trained as fast as they were taken in. V 12 was offered to individuals who qualified and were currently students in college.

Because this was a rather select group, the talent gathered was most invigorating. Because these people came from various schools and were all reasonably bright and physically fit individuals, it made for an interesting time. The good part for us, as participants, was that we were continuing our education although we were also being trained as Marines.

Emory was, and still is, an outstanding university of medicine and ministry. I dare say that it has never been the same since the V 12 of the Navy and Marine Corps descended upon it. We took over the dormitories and bunked 3 to a room in two tiered bunk beds. The good beds and mattresses were stored in the attic – which I later discovered and took a nap on a pile of 6 mattresses every afternoon. I seem to never get enough sleep and can sleep 10 hours every night – although I don't get to. Perhaps it is because my blood pressure runs low or maybe I am just lazy.

Our group had been drawn from the southeastern colleges while other groups in the north and west drew on students from their respective areas. Since Georgia Tech, across town, also had a V 12 unit, our group at Emory came mainly from smaller schools. Besides me and two others from “Biltmore Tech” we had people from Rollins, The University of the South, Bob Jones College, Furman, Newberry and a host of others whose names escape me at this time.

Our routine was a bit different from what I was used to. We were up at 6:00 am, ran one mile, showered and went to breakfast. Then we went to class just as regular college students until 3 pm from 3 to 5 we had close order drill, rifle instruction and ran 5 miles. Then we could play baseball or football until supper (not dinner). Study period was from 7 pm to 10 pm and lights out at 10 pm I have not been so healthy or in such good condition since.

As mentioned above, there was such a diversity of talent available that almost any kind of group could be formed. Word was put on the bulletin board that there was an inspection next month by high ranking officers from Washington and asking anyone interested to become a part of a marching band. In two weeks we had a reasonably good band, complete with an experienced drum major. To our chagrin, there were no majorettes available.

As an off shoot of this, there was a call for anyone interested in being a part of a dance orchestra which was being formed. I joined this along with some really good musicians and I learned a lot.

Since there was a shortage of men outside of the service, the girl's schools had a difficult time getting enough for the Christmas dances. My roommate, Adrian Testerman, knew a girl from Brenau and she invited him to attend the Christmas dance at the Tri Delta sorority and bring two friends. Hap Marshall and I gladly accepted.  Brenau is in Gainesville, Georgia so we took the train from Atlanta – about a one hour trip.

My blind date was Denny Williams. Denny was engaged to an Ensign and she was not overwhelmed with me nor I with her. I spent most of the time with her roommate, a vivacious young thing named Ann Sholes and as the Sicilians say, I was struck by the thunderbolt. I had a date with Ann the next day and we walked around Gainesville. Ann, always the adventurous type, did not tell me that the girls were prohibited from walking in the city without permission. We were accosted by an old maid teacher who ordered us back to the campus and told me “We think boys would rather marry Brenau girls who have been brought up properly. I replied, in my usual smart mouth way “I just came for the week end, I did not come to get married.” Little did I know that the old biddie was giving me an accurate forecast of the outcome. Ann was in her first year at Brenau but she was a sophomore. Her freshman year was at Stevens College in Missouri but with the cost and travel time involved in going from Lynchburg to Missouri, her parents felt it better that she get closer to home.

Ann and Denny came to Atlanta in a few weeks and we went to the Fox Theater to a movie – that was about all we could do. They returned the same night, after curfew and sneaked in a bottle of rum purchased in Atlanta. Someone squealed and they were campused for a month.

Toward the end of my assignment at Emory, Charlie Smith who had married my cousin Mary Madeline came through Atlanta. Charlie was an executive for FW Woolworth. He took me to dinner at the Biltmore hotel and asked if I liked shrimp cocktail. I said “Yes” but the truth is I had never had one… (Caviar was starting) he also took me to the Fox Theater, which is still the place in Atlanta for entertainment. The featured performer was Eddie Peabody, the King of the Banjo. Many years later while I was attending a meeting of the Fiber Box Association, Eddie was the featured entertainer. The president of the Association, after the cocktail hour had been in session, introduced him as follows: Ladies and Gentlemen, we have a rare treat for you tonight. Eddie Playbody is going to pee on his banjo.

Feeling like a man of the world, I wrote Ann and said “We probably won't see each other again but it has been fun.” She was distraught because now she had only 5 boyfriends instead of 6.

1944

DUKE UNIVERSITY

As more and more of the V-12 group were sent to Parris Island, Camp LeJeune and Quantico, the V-12 program began to contract and the operation at Emory was closed and after 6 months at Emory the remaining personnel were sent to Duke.

Another marvelous opportunity to attend a first rate University.

We were at Duke only 3 months but it was fun, interesting and educational. There was a dance band in existence there and I joined it and was asked to switch from alto to baritone sax. This was because I was not very good and no one wanted to play baritone but I did it quite well. There I learned that a baritone sax really does not play with the sax section. The arrangements were written so that the baritone plays kind of a counter melody with the trombones and bass.

It was also there that I had my first beer. Having been raised in the Methodist church, any alcohol was forbidden and even at communion they gave grape juice instead of wine. This is how Mr. Welch, who was a devout Methodist, started his company “Welch's Grape Juice”. After reading the Bible I found that Jesus drank wine so who am I do otherwise?

The Duke campus at that time was split – one part was for males and one part was for females. There was a bus which took us to the girl's campus but we had to register to enter. How times change. There was also a large bronze statue at the entrance of the girls campus of Mr. Duke seated. The legend at that time was that the statue would stand up if a virgin entered.  Today he would probably remain seated but times were different then.

There I also learned a bit about people. We were told that the workers who cleaned the halls (we cleaned our own rooms) would ask us for a loan. The people “in the know” said “If they ask for a loan of $5.00, don't loan it to them because they will dodge you forever. But, instead, give them a $1.00 and they will be forever loyal”. Razmislite o tome.

I always seemed to have two close friends. I have found that this is about the total number of close friends one can have even though you may have hundreds of acquaintances. My two close friends at that time were Harrison “Hap” Marshall and Adrian Testerman. Adrian was dating a girl on the other campus whose name was “Bobbie”. A delightful, intelligent and very rich girl. Unfortunately, she was born with an eye problem and Hap and I would say “Are you still dating Cross?”

After the war, Adrian married Bobbie and Hap and I were humiliated since we were invited to the wedding.  I am still in touch with Hap who lives in Greenville, SC but we have not seen each other for a long time. To my distress, I found that Adrian and Bobbie had divorced, Adrian married a second time and passed away a few years ago. Our reunion, which we had planned for years, will have to wait.

So – on to

1944

PARRIS ISLAND

There have been many books written and movies made about Boot Camp in the Marines and it is something special and is part of the reason for the reputation of the Corps. It was tough but perhaps we had it a little easier than a raw recruit coming in cold. The job of the drill instructors (D I's) was to instill blind discipline (which they surely did), teach us to march and strip an M-1 rifle. We already knew how to do the last two so their job was easier. For this reason, we perhaps did not get as much abuse as is normal. However, I do remember when I lost my locker key. The punishment for this was to put a bucket over your head, run up and down before the Platoon flapping your arms like wings and yelling “I am a shit bird from Yemassee, I lost my locker key”. Yemassee was a small town on the mainland across from Parris Island. Our train stopped there on the way from Durham to Parris Island and it was not exactly the Orient Express. There was such a shortage of rail cars that everything which would run was pressed into service. Ours had kerosene lamps and a pot bellied stove for heat. Although we griped about this, the guys from the First Division who were on Guadalcanal would have swapped with us gladly.

This was when I first learned of Government Morals. I had always been taught “Thou shalt not steal”. When we reported, we were issued two sheets and a blanket for the bunks. When I went in to my assigned bunk, there was no blanket. I reported this to the DI he said “I signed for all of these blankets so you will not go to lunch with the rest of the Platoon but when we get back from lunch I expect to see a blanket on your bunk”.  The message was clear and while everyone was a lunch I went to the next Platoon and stole a blanket. How many times this happened and who finally ended up without a blanket, I do not know.

One of our lessons in Boot Camp was to learn how to box. The assistant DI said “Today we are going to learn to box. Are there any professional boxers here?”  No hands were raised. Are there any Golden Glove Boxers here?” Two hands were raised. “You two fall out”. “Are there any college boxers here?”  4 hands were raised. “You 4 fall out”. “Are there any street fighters here?' Two hands were raised. “You 2 fall out”.  “Now, after eliminating these people, I assume that I know more about boxing than you.” and he proceeded to give us a lesson from which even the pros and amateurs learned something because it was not just boxing but total self defense. He taught us that, if the Marcus of Queensbury rules don't apply, a blow to the Adam's apple, a kick on the knee, a stomp on the instep and other areas which shall remain unmentionable, is more effective than a right cross to the jaw.

Our DI's were very good and honorable but tough. Some were not so honorable. One of my staff when I was in China told me a story about when he was in Boot Camp. In the barracks there was a walled off section where the DI lived. My friend told me that one night when they had just come back from “chow”, the DI was in his room. In a loud voice he said “I had $5.00 and I was going over to the NCO club to drink some beer but I lost the $5.00 somewhere – so, I guess we will have to stay here and have a field day (which meant scrubbing the floor with toothbrushes).

One of the recruits yelled out “I found 50 cents of your $5.00. Another chimed in “I found 75 cents” until the entire $5.00 appeared and the DI had his evening and the boots had some rest.

After 4 weeks we earned the ultimate privilege – going to a movie.  The screen was outdoors and we arranged our selves in the sand. If you build up a little mound behind your back, it can be quite comfortable sitting in the sand. Before we went we asked “What is on at the movie?”

The DI's always replied “12 rounds of grab ass starring Shirley Temple and Boris Karloff.” I guess this was part of their training – but you know, the expression “Grab Ass” was pretty accurate when applied correctly. If you remember when you were a pre teenager, all of the boys were constantly tripping each other, pushing each other, grabbing each other and fretting the girls. Other, more civilized persons than Marines probably called this “Horse Play”.

Before I leave Parris Island I must speak of the sand fleas. The environmentalist will tell you that every living thing on earth has a reason for being. If the sand flea has a reason, it must be to pester Marines at Boot Camp. When you are in formation at attention, you cannot move a muscle. If a sand flea crawls up you nose, as they are prone to do, all you can do is swallow them. At any formal parade on Parris Island you would hear “snuff, snuff” – indicating that another sand flea had bitten the dust – or at least the digestive tract. Are they rich in protein? Only the DI Knows.

Then we graduated and received the rank of PFC – Private First Class!!

This meant $5.00 per month raise and an attitude of superiority over the poor buck private.

Also, if you shot Expert on the rifle range this meant another $2.50 per month plus a medal.

And – off to Camp Lejeune to learn how to kill Japs (although we did not really want to kill anybody – except for a few DI's)

1944-1945

CAMP LEJEUNE (1)

Although I did not realize it, this was to be my first time at Camp Lejeune. It is perhaps the largest base in the Marine Corps and is situated in the eastern part of North Carolina, close to Jacksonville NC and not too far from Wilmington NC How many square miles it encompasses I do not know but it numbers in the hundreds of thousands and borders on the Atlantic Ocean and the Inland Waterway.

We were put in Companies according to our age (which at that time was 19 for me and the others in our company). We now had a collar adornment which said “OCS”.  This stood for Officer Candidate School. Needless to say, the other troops training at Camp LeJeune did not like us very much.

One thing I have found in war time is that those who survive do not talk about the terrible things which happen but about the funny things. I recall that we had maneuvers in the Boondocks and we had a box lunch. This consisted of a ham sandwich with mayonnaise. Having been in the heat for a long time, when we ate the sandwich, it got all of us.

Upon returning to the barracks, it hit us. After much study by architects and engineers it was determined that toilet facilities are needed for 5% of the group involved. When 100% have the “Green Apple Quick Step”, 5% ain't enough. I recall going into our own bathroom which had about 10 toilets and saying “Please get up”. The occupant would say” I would like to but I can't”.

Then I would go to the next barracks and say “Please get up”. The occupant would say” I would like to but I can't”.

Statistics do not always work.

My Mother sent me some candy and I ate it all in one night. The next day I had a stomach ache. I went to sick bay and asked for some medicine. The doctor said “Let me check you”. He punched on my stomach and I almost jumped through the ceiling. He said “You have acute appendicitis. I am sending you to the hospital”. I was put in a truck with a group of prisoners who were also going to the hospital. We arrived at the hospital and sat on benches, waiting. After about 2 hours they got to me and asked for the papers I was carrying. The nurse said “My God, you have acute appendicitis. Get on this stretcher”. I was sent to the operating room and operated on immediately. Instead of stitches I had staples. These rusted and gave me some problems. I don't think the surgeons use these anymore. I was in a ward of about 150 others, most of whom were gunshot wounds from Guadalcanal so I felt kind of inferior – but it was a fun group. When the lights went out there were always jokes and songs – mostly vulgar. After about 4 days I was up on my feet and was assigned to clean the bathroom even though I could not straighten up.  One day, after mopping the bathroom a Lieutenant Nurse came in and said “This is not good enough. Do it over”. As she left I said “Bitch”. She said “What did you say?” I said “I have an itch under the scar”.

After two weeks the doctor came in and said “There is a hospital in your home town of Asheville. We can send you there for two months to recuperate”. I declined this because I would lose my class and would fall behind. If I had accepted this I probably would not have gone to Guam or China. Was I smart or stupid?

We worked hard and learned a lot. The war was in full force in Europe and the Pacific. We were headed for the Pacific and we knew it.

I began to write to Ann again and while she was still preoccupied with other suitors, I was still enchanted. To my surprise and pleasure, I found that because of transportation and cost to Brenau, she had transferred to Mary Washington College in Fredericksburg, Va. which was close to Quantico where I was going next.

1945

QUANTICO

I arrived in Quantico and, although it was tough, I enjoyed it thoroughly. This was Officers Candidate School so we had a few amenities which we did not have in Parris Island or  Camp LeJeune. We ate at tables for four with chairs instead of a long table on benches and we were called “Mister”. The best part was the quality of the instructors.

Although our primary purpose was to learn to kill people, we also learned the skills of leadership and organization. Both of these principles apply to life in any field. Since that time, I have been interested in the principles of leadership and organization which are put forth by many prominent people. I am not a great student of the Bible but if I remember correctly, Moses, who was known for his leadership, found himself bogged down in settling disputes among his subjects and did not have time to govern. He went to his father in law whose name was (I think) Jethro. Jethro said “Make men captains of tens, captains of hundreds and captains of thousands – then you work with the captains of thousands but don't forget the individuals. This has remained a principle of the military, business and government.

General Eisenhower said “Leadership is a business of push and pull. If you put a piece of string on the table and push it, it will fold up. If you pull it, it will follow you. If you want a promotion, you must push the person above you to create a spot for your promotion but – you must also pull the person below you to fill your spot so that you can be promoted.”

Henry Ford, who did not invent the automobile but who did invent mass production, was once asked by reporters “Mr. Ford, are you an engineer?”  He replied ” No, but I can push this button on my desk and the best 10 engineers in the country will be here in 10 minutes”. He was not afraid to surround himself with good people.

Again, at Quantico, we had a relatively easy time compared to the people who came in cold. There was a program where applicants came in directly from civilian life and had to be taught all of the basics of being a Marine. We had been in V-12 for a year, in Parris Island for 10 weeks and Camp Lejeune for a year. This made it easy for the instructors so they made it (relatively) easy on us.

As in all walks of life there are tragedies but in the military there are more than normal. My fist view of a dead person was at Quantico. We went into the field to be shown how to blow a tank trap with explosives. We were perhaps 1/2 mile away and when the charge was set off great pieces of rock and dirt were blown into the air. The explosive was too big and rocks began to rain down on us. One large rock, the size of a basketball hit one of our platoon on the head. He was perhaps 20 feet away from me. He died instantly.  This was my first real insight into the horrors of war – but it happens on the highway at the rate of 50,000 per year.

I called Ann and arranged our first date as soon as I had a free week end. I went to the train station to go to Fredericksburg and was hit by the “Gallops”. I went to sick bay and they gave me paregoric. This stopped the problem but I felt terrible. When I got to Mary Washington I went through the grilling that the house mothers used to do and they called Ann. I shall never forget her running down the hall, dressed in a gray flannel skirt, a pink angora sweater, pink angora bobby socks and loafers. She threw her arms around me and gave me a big hug. I was hooked.

We began to meet in Washington, DC which was a short train ride for both of us. Ann stayed with her Aunt and Uncle – Bill Clarkson who was a Colonel stationed at the Pentagon. Colonel Clarkson was very self confident gentlemen and many called him arrogant – but I liked him. He was in the army before the war started and was a Warrant Officer. I don't know if this rank still exists but at that time it was between “enlisted” and “officer”. When the war started he was promoted to a commissioned officer – a Captain I think – and was sent on a special mission to General Clair Chennault's “Flying Tigers”. They were volunteers fighting with China against the Japanese. Colonel Clarkson got sick and was flown to Hong Kong for treatment. While he was there, the Japanese attacked and all of the Americans were taken prisoner. Bill told me they spent 5 days on the roof of the American Embassy firing at the Japanese Zeros with 45 caliber pistols.  This is like a bullfighter attacking a bull with a pen knife but it was all they could do. Hong Kong fell and they were captives. For about one year, he was missing in action as far as his family knew. During his captivity he drew up some “official” documents transferring himself to the diplomatic corps. After about a year there was a negotiation whereby the diplomats were returned to the USA on a Swedish ship – I think it was the Gripsholm – and he was on it. While the ship was leaving the harbor his subterfuge was discovered and the Japanese tried to stop the ship but the captain would not turn back so Bill returned to the USA.

He was sent to the Walter Reid Army hospital at Bethesda because of under nourishment. After checking him, the doctor said “We have to get some weight back on you. To help your appetite, what would you like to drink before dinner?”  He said “I would like a Scotch and soda”.  – and that was his medicine. It don't get no better than this in the hospital

I called Ann for a date in Washington and this was before direct dialing. The operator said ” President Roosevelt just died'. I got the news before it came out in the papers and CNN was not in operation at that time.

At that time a hotel room in Washington was almost impossible to get but we had a system. The Willard hotel, an old but famous hotel always had suites available. Five of us would go together to rent a suite and although there were only two beds. We would sleep on the floor, sofa or wherever. Since we did not sleep much on the weekends it really did not matter. One weekend Ann did not have permission to visit her Aunt and Uncle but she came to Washington anyway. Her friend came with her and others in our group at the Willard had girl friends. We all stayed in the suite. Fear not – this was not an orgy. We were of a different generation so we moved the mattresses off the bed and two girls slept on the springs, two on the mattresses and the guys slept on the floor. Since one bed was in one room and one in the other, we had to pass the mattresses through the window since they would not go through the door. We were on the 12th floor. The next morning Ann and I went to have breakfast at a diner across from the hotel. We looked up and saw a mattress being passed from one room to the other on the 12th floor. Fortunately the management was not looking.

On another week end, Ann told me she was “campused” and could not meet me in Washington. I called Sara Bohannon, a good friend and ex classmate at Biltmore Tech who was going to George Washington University. We met and had a good time re hashing old times – nothing romantic. I had always wondered what Sara's father did since they lived in Grove Park, belonged to the Country Club and traveled a lot. I found that he was a lobbyist for the oil industry – an occupation which I am sure is on going.

It turned out that Ann was not “Campused” but was meeting an old high school  boy friend. My friend, Fred Williams bumped into them accidentally and talked Ann into returning on the same train with us. To my surprise, when I went to the station to meet Fred, there was Ann. Stan Kenton was playing a concert at Quantico that night and I asked Ann to get off at Quantico and go to see Kenton because he had Anita O'Day singing with him and she was great. It was strictly prohibited for any girl from Mary Washington to get off at Quantico – but you know Annie – so she did. We were disappointed to find that Anita O'Day had left the band but her replacement was June Christie who went on to her own fame in the Jazz world. We got Ann safely on the late train and she managed to conceal her activities from the Wardeness at the school.

Finally, in June of 1945, graduation day came. I invited Ann to attend. She really wanted to go to the graduation of her favorite cousin, Billy Clarkson at West Point but Billy talked her into coming to Quantico because he was to be married right after graduation and Ann would not really get to see him. I have been grateful to Billy but I never got to meet him. He was killed in a fighter plane crash in Germany.

Ann returned to Asheville with me on the Southern Railroad – what used to be a fine form of transportation. She stayed for one glorious week and when she returned to Lynchburg, I left for Camp Pendleton.

We were allowed the equivalent of train fare from Quantico to Los Angeles with 5 days per diem for meals but the option of how to get there was open. I elected to go by plane – my first trip in the air.

1945

CAMP PENDLETON

I caught American Airlines from Knoxville, Tennessee to LA It was on a DC 3 and took 18 hours. I thought it was incredible. Upon arrival, being a Jazz fan, I went to the Hollywood Palladium to hear Les Brown. Doris Day was singing with him at the time.

The next day I reported to Camp Pendleton and began 2 months of Troop Leaders School. Most civilians think the military spends its time shooting and crawling through the mud – and there is plenty of this – but a great deal of time in training officers is spent on learning how to instruct your troops and to make effective plans. There are many incompetent leaders (and followers) in the military but when the chips are down the cream comes to the top and an Eisenhower, Patton, Bradley, Vandergrift, Puller or hundreds of others emerge. The skills I learned there stood me in good stead later in life in business. I had always wanted to be a teacher anyway but I had to wait for my son and granddaughter to fulfill this ambition.

We worked 6 days and had 2 days off so our “weekends” moved up one day each week. This was the pattern in all of the military installations in the area. If a normal 5 day week had been in effect, the number of service men descending on Hollywood, LA and San Diego at one time would have sunk the southern coast of California.

Our normal routine during these two months was to go to the Hollywood Palladium the first night of our pass, meet some girls, dance and do whatever your morals dictated (mine were pretty dull), save enough money to go to Laguna Beach  to drink beer and body surf in the wonderful waves at this beach. I should point out that even though I was a Marine Lieutenant, I could not buy a drink in California because the age limit was 21 and I was 20. Being of sound mind and body and being thirsty I changed my birth date on my ID card from 1925 to 1923 with one stroke of the pen. Also, it was most embarrassing to invite a young lady to dinner and have the waiter refuse to serve you a drink.

One week end a friend asked me to join him in La Jolla which was just north of San Diego (and is now part of metropolitan San Diego). Having no knowledge of Spanish, I was hearing “Lahoya”. I went on the bus, missed the sign and ended up in San Diego.

Then came our orders to pack up and paint “DUVA” on our sea trunks and sea bags.  This was a top secret code but everyone seemed to know it meant “Guam”.

1945

GUAM

We boarded ship in San Diego and became part of one of the most costly mistakes in World War II (of which , I am sure, there were many). The ship was an AKA and the only cargo was 21 brand new, wet behind the ears, Marine Second Lieutenants. While we were zig zaging across the Pacific for 28 days, the atomic bomb was dropped. The crew, knowing that we were the only cargo on a ship which would hold a battalion and equipment, were convinced that we were specialists connected to the atomic program. After denying this for a week, we finally began to say, “Yes, but it is top secret and we can't talk about it”.

Upon arriving on Guam, we were all sent to the Transit Center which consisted of a series of tents with wooden floors. We waited, we waited and we waited. Guam had been “secure” for over a year after the Marines landed there and on Tinian which was close by but there were a number of Japanese in the Jungle who did not get the word that the Island had been captured. From time to time, some of these would be captured and they always wore Marine green underwear which they had stolen off the clothes lines at various locations.

To break the monotony of waiting, I decided to hitchhike to North Field to see where some of the planes had taken off for Tokyo. As I recall, the planes carrying the Atomic Bombs had left from Tinian or Saipan and had landed on the return at Okinawa (they did not have fuel to get all the way back). This explained why taking Okinawa had been so important. While on Guam we saw the battle plan for the invasion of Japan with the estimate of hundreds of thousands of casualties. Thanks to Harry Truman's decision to drop the bombs, I am still alive.

While I was standing on the road waiting for a Jeep or truck to come by and give me a lift to North Field, there was a great crashing sound in the jungle. I was unarmed and assumed that a Japanese soldier was coming out. Instead, a huge water buffalo with big horns emerged. He looked at me, I looked at him. He turned and retreated into the jungle. Only the laundry man and I will know how scared I was.

We were finally assigned to a unit. Five of us were assigned to the 2nd battalion, 22nd Marines. Later, after I was promoted to First Lieutenant and became a human being in the eyes of the enlisted men, the First Sergeant told me that when the 5 of us reported he said “My God, here is the basketball team from Podunk High School”.

Adrian Testerman was in our group and he was assigned to be the Adjutant. I was assigned to be S-2, Combat Intelligence Officer. He and I did some “networking” and found that Hap Marshall had landed and was assigned to the 29th Marines across the Island. We walked over and had a good reunion.

We received orders to pack up and leave for China. I was given a work detail with the second platoon of company D to load the ship. Up until this time, the only command I had had was a platoon or a company made up of officer candidates. All of these were eager to do well and get good grades from the instructors so if you gave a command or instruction, they did their best to comply. How naive can you get when entering the real world?

I marched the Platoon to the dock and met the crane operator. He was leaving for supper and would be back in one hour. He also told me that I needed only half the platoon at one time so I divided them up in group 1 and group 2 and told them to relax until the crane operator returned. When he returned I called out “Group one, fall in”. After several shouts with no action, I began to look around. I found one Marine under a tarpaulin drinking pineapple juice which he had found in the shipment and had opened with a bayonet. When I asked if he were in group one he of course said “No.” Wising up, I found some more, here there and yonder. I would ask which group they were in and when they replied either one or two, I would say “Fall in, your group is working.” In this manner I had gathered up about 10 people. I went to search for more and when I returned there was no one there. I then found another eating corned beef which he had discovered in the shipment. I asked his name and when he gave it I said “Private, you have 10 minutes to find your platoon sergeant.  He reported in about 2 minutes. I told him to locate both groups and have them fall in. He yelled “Alright, all you SOB's from the first platoon, company D, fall in.”  They came from all directions and this was the last time I by passed a chain of command.

We completed loading and left for China.

1945-1946

CHINA

After about three days at sea we ran into a Typhoon. Ropes were tied on the deck for those who had to go out but most stayed inside. Sleeping was difficult because of the pitching and rolling. When we looked out the portholes at other ships in the convoy, it appeared the Destroyer Escorts were going under. They would disappear behind the waves and then break water like a fish jumping. I am told that even the sailors with much time aboard did not make a meal for three days. We had a Chinese interpreter attached to Division Intelligence and he was sick the whole time. Fearing for his health, we finally convinced him to come to a meal. In the officers wardroom the plates were placed upside down and were turned over for serving when you sat down. This poor fellow turned his plate over and promptly threw up in it. The rest of the table rose, as if on command, and retired.

The fourth day the storm passed and we spent much time on deck watching the flying fish (they don't have those in Asheville, NC) I was standing by a Gunnery Sergeant who had previously been in China in the 30's. I said “Gunny, how will we know when we are getting close?” He replied “You will smell it.”

We were prepared for a combat landing because there were several divisions of Japanese in Tsingtao and we were not sure they had gotten the word that the war was over. However, we received radio messages from the Chinese military that all was quiet so we docked in the harbor. To make sure everything was calm we sent a reconnaissance platoon ashore. This was commanded by a lieutenant who was known by the name of “Whiskey”. This had come from the Okinawa campaign where he was famed for always finding something to drink.

Whiskey was gone for some time with no radio messages and we began to be concerned. He finally returned, without his hat. The welcome from the Chinese was joyful and his jeep had been surrounded by a group of “Ladies of the Night.” They sang out “Fuckee ?, Suckee?” to which Whiskey replied “Both.”

We disembarked and took over Shantung University which had been the Japanese Naval Academy. Field grade officers were quartered in houses outside the compound. We junior officers were 8 to a room in what had been class rooms. There appeared on the scene a Chinaman dressed in a long white gown, just like in the movies. He spoke a little English since he had been houseboy to the Marines in the 30's. He asked for a job as our houseboy and I hired him. He cleaned our room, shined our boots and we taught him to clean our weapons.  This was soon discovered by a Major and since the Field grade officers did not have a house boy, we were ordered to fire him. In about two months, everyone, including the non coms had house boys and we were allowed to re hire our friend.

Our mission was to send the Japanese back to Japan but first we had to take a formal surrender. This took place on the grounds of the local race track. Our division stood in ranks while the Japanese officers paraded by our commanding General and place their swords in a huge pile. (These became souvenirs which were given out by rank. There weren't enough to filter down to 2nd lieutenants.) This ceremony, which was quite impressive, was very tiring. We were at parade rest for over 4 hours in the hot sun. Viewed from the front of the ranks, it was a very orderly, military sight. But – a plane took aerial photos and from about the fifth row back, guys were sitting down, lounging and smoking. When these came out the general's staff spent weeks identifying who was where in each company.

We soon found that the local Generals in the Chinese army were responsible for funding their own armies. This resulted  not only in taxes but there were groups of Chinese soldiers who were going into the European sector, entering the house at gun point and taking whatever was available. We started patrols, day and night, in this sector to prevent this. Most of the European population was white Russians who had been in Tsingtao for years. There were also a few English and French. Most of these were sent back to their own country by the Chinese government and it was tough because many had never been to their own country.

Chang was still in charge at that time but the Communists controlled all of China except those cities where there was a Marine contingent. Besides Tsingtao, we had units in Shanghai and Tientsin. Because of this we had to set up a defense line around the airport and around the whole city. We had gun positions and fox holes prepared and could move out to these in a very short time. Because of some sniping and other activity, we were called to move to these positions several times – usually a 2 or 3:00 in the morning.

On one such trip, as day light crept up, I noticed something moving in the trees. I went to investigate and found a Chinaman hanging, an apparent suicide. His possessions were on the ground – a pipe, a small amount of tobacco and a small pocket knife and from his clothing he was obviously a poor peasant. I did not touch anything and upon our return, I reported this to my counterpart in the Chinese intelligence. We went back to these positions three days later and I found that the poor fellow was still hanging but his meager belongings were gone and his clothes had been stolen. I returned to the city, strapped on a .45 pistol (which I normally did not carry), went to the police station and demanded that someone accompany me to the site, cut the poor fellow down and bury him – and they did.

I tried to get one of the trips on an LST returning the Japanese troops to Japan but they always went with a staff sergeant in charge so I never saw Japan except when I was leaving on a ship for home, I got a glimpse of  Mount Fujiama .

After all of the Japanese had been returned we really did not have much to do. We had close order drill in the mornings and were encouraged to participate in sports in the afternoon. I played a lot of tennis – not exactly the thing you brag about when asked about your military service.

I had the good fortune to report to Captain Jack Marston, an excellent officer and later a good friend. Jack was the son of General John Marston who was the Commandant of Camp Lejeune when I was there. Needless to say, I did not know the General.  Jack was one of the older more experienced officers – he was 25. Our battalion commander, Colonel Stephens was known affectionaly as “The Old Man”. He was 28. I had my 21st birthday in Tsingtao. As best I can remember, it was a fine party and used up our ration of two bottles of bourbon per month for several months.

Since the war was over, many officers who had been desk bound were anxious to have overseas service on their records and many applied. Most of them were excellent officers who, through no fault of their own or because of a special skill, were assigned to Washington. Some were just opportunists. One of the latter was a Major assigned to the Regimental Intelligence Section and when I had the duty as Officer of the Day, he called and said he wanted to accompany me on the inspection of all of the guard posts.

We started at the dock and as our jeep approached we were halted and asked for the password. I gave this and we drove up to the sentry, an old country boy from Tennessee. He said “Evenin' Lt. Tilson, evenin' Major and I replied “Good evening, Herman. Everything quiet here?” “Yessir, no action.” The Major looked at the paper listing all of the guard posts and said “Private this is a two man post. I am going to report your partner for deserting his post!!”  To which Herman replied “Oh he ain't deserted his post Major. We seen you coming and didn't know who you was. He's in that clump of bushes over yonder and he's got an M-1 rifle pointed right at your head.“ To my credit, I was able to stifle my laughter.

Buck Thalheimer, a friend from Quantico, and I became friends with Mr. Yen Chi Dong, a wealthy Chinese merchant who had a big house right outside of our compound. As was the custom, we would take him to dinner one night and the next time was his turn. His beautiful young wife, who I saw by accident once in his house, never was present but his brothers and his mother quite often joined us. Once we went to a restaurant which had 5 floors. It got better as the floors increased. The first floor was for walk in patrons and the fifth, where we ate, was all private dining rooms with each person having a waitress. My waitress had gold teeth and was ugly by any standards. Mr. Yen offered her to me if I wished. Besides her being ugly, I had been so frightened by the training films on VD that I had no interest.

I defended several enlisted men as a result of my reputation on Guam. I had forgotten about this until 1993 when I was handling a loan with option to buy for Cartonera Hernandez. The negotiation was with Union Camp (recently bought by International Paper) and I was thrown against some of the finest lawyers in the USA and Dominican Republic. This resulted in the following letter:

November 15, 1993

To: Dr. Ramon Caceres – Troncoso y Caceres

Mr. Jeffery Fraum Esq. – Counsel – Union Camp

Mr. William Lets Esq. – Counsel – Bank of New York

Lic. Georges  Santoni – Herridia Bonetti

Mr. Victor Alvarez Esq. – White & Case

Mr. Donald Baker Esq.  -  White & Case

From: MB Tilson

Gentlemen,

We have successfully completed the negotiations between Cartonera Hernandez and Union Camp/Bank of New York for the $15 million transaction.

As I recall, the gestation period of an elephant is quite long so I think we have given birth to an elephant rather than a baby.

During this extended period I sent many lawyer jokes to Jeff but perhaps the best joke of the whole transaction was when Jeff sent me a package addressed to “MB Tilson, Esquire”.

Georges Santoni , who received a copy, called me and said “Are you a lawyer?”

I told him it was a joke from Jeff but after I hung up the phone I realized that I was a lawyer before any of you.

In 1945 I was serving as combat intelligence officer for the 22nd Marine Regiment on Guam. We were scheduled for a combat landing on the mainland of Japan but, thanks to the atomic bombs, we were diverted to China instead.

Since Guam was secure, except for a few Japanese in the jungle who would not believe the war was over, we allowed the men to go on liberty into the small villages on the island.

One of the men in my section was put in the brig and was scheduled for a court martial for “lewd and lascivious conduct unbecoming a Marine”.

When I asked his friends what he had done they said “He was waving his dick at a gook girl” (The Marine fighting man was not very reverent).

This was before the Code of Military Justice went into effect and the custom was to appoint an officer as defense attorney. The legal officer of the Regiment acted as the prosecutor. I was appointed as defense attorney and so, I became a lawyer in 1945.

Several of you were not born at that time and I am sure none of you were yet lawyers.

I was eminently qualified for this since I was 20 years old and had spent the last three years learning to kill people.

But – I did learn the dilemma which you attorneys face when your duty is to defend your client even though you know, or at least suspect, that he is guilty.

In this case the client readily admitted that he had indeed done this but he had not been arrested at the scene. The MP's came for him only after the young lady reported him.

He further stated that she had decided not to appear against him and that his story to the Military Police was that he was not in the city but was visiting his brother who was on a submarine which had arrived at the port in Guam.

Since I knew, or at least thought, that the burden of proof was on the prosecution, my defense was as follows:

I did not let him testify. I submitted to the court the record showing that he was off the base on authorized liberty. I entered into the record his statement about visiting his brother on a submarine. He did not name the submarine because the coming and going of submarines was top secret at that time.

Since the young lady did not wish to testify and since the court could not disprove the submarine story, I rested my case.

He was convicted anyway and sentenced to six months in the brig with loss of pay for this time.

After two months, the verdict was reversed by the Judge Advocate General's Office in Washington for lack of evidence. He was released and his pay restored.

The consensus of the men in the Regiment was that he should have been punished but after 2 months in the brig with 10 days on cake and ale (which you civilians would call bread and water), this was enough. Besides, having been in the Pacific for three years, all he was doing was advertising which is nothing but good business.

The word of the reversal spread through the Regiment and, after reaching China, I defended several more cases. I was known to the men as the “Perry Mason of the 22nd Marines”.

So you see, Gentlemen, I am not a lawyer but I used to be.

Pozdrav,

Having not much to do, we organized a dance band and played at the enlisted club twice a week. The men were allowed to bring Chinese girls to these dances. Three of us were officers and were not supposed to be in the enlisted club so we took off the bars on our collar. Since there were no stripes on our sleeves, we appeared to be buck privates and quite often had to take a lot of lip from drunk corporals. Occasionally a fight would break out between sailors and Marines. The only way to stop it was to start playing The Star Spangled Banner. When the National Anthem was being played, all service men were required to stand at attention and salute. Francis Scott Key never knew how many broken bones, black eyes and bloody noses he would prevent.

I met an English journalist who had been sent to cover the operation. He encouraged me to enter the Diplomatic service when I returned home and finished my education. I asked him why he thought I could be a diplomat and he said ” When we have been playing bridge (which I was just learning) I have seen you open the bidding with two no trump without anything in your hand. As the hand progressed I could see no emotion to indicate that you were in trouble so I made many mistakes, assuming you had something hidden.” I sometimes wish I had taken his advice.

Then came the day we all had waited for. On the bulletin board was posted the names of those returning. These were listed in order of time spent overseas and my name was pretty close to the top since the real veterans of Iwo Jima, Okinawa etc. had already been sent home when the war ended. Also a chance came up for us to fly in Marine Corps fighter planes as passengers to Shanghai, Tientsin and Hong Kong. I did not take this because I was afraid of missing the next ship home. Adrian Testerman took a more logical approach saying “I'll never get this chance again and a few more months won't make any difference.” He took the trip and when he returned I was still waiting for the boat.

One reason I declined was that I had sent Ann an engagement ring and a wedding ring. I don't think I had ever formally proposed but she accepted and sent me a newspaper clipping with her picture and the engagement announcement. She still had a number of boys after her and she continued to date. Absence makes the heart grow fonder – but of whom??  Fortunately for me, when she met me in Asheville upon my return, she agreed completely.

We got word that we were going to pull out and we who remained were transferred to the Sin Wah Hotel. We were there for three weeks while we were loading the ship and the waiters and clean up people were fabulous. You could leave money on the table by the bed and nothing happened. But – the night before we left everyone knew we were leaving at 6:00 am. That morning every watch, fountain pen, wallet and money was gone – as were the waiters, cooks and clean up personnel.

I was in charge of loading the equipment for our Battalion on the ship. I was up for 36 hours and after boarding I slept for 16 hours straight. When I awakened, we were at sea.  A few days later we passed by Japan – but far away – but I did get a glimpse of the top of Mount Fujiyama – Spectacular.

We were on a ship with 5,000 men and the routine for the men was to eat breakfast and then get in line for lunch and after lunch, get in line for supper. Since I had been in charge of loading the ship the Colonel excused me from being on guard duty as officer of the day. Instead, he placed me in charge of the laundry. Can you imagine having to sort out green underwear, all identical except for the name stenciled on them, for 5,000 men?  He did me no favors.

Most of our band was on the ship so we re-organized and played on the fan tail each night. This would normally have been cocktail hour but, as you know, American ships are dry (at least they were after the booze sneaked aboard ran out).

Again we by passed Hawaii. I guess we were the only group going to the Pacific which did not stop in Hawaii going or coming. I am sorry I missed it.

One morning we were awakened by the fact that the ship was not moving. Coming on deck we sighted the lushest vegetation I had ever seen. After having been in China for a year and at sea for about 24 days, the sight of greenery was wonderful. We were anchored off Panama, ready to enter the Canal. This took all day and we all stood on deck watching. I would like to do it again someday because it is an experience which I shall never forget.

After passing through the Canal, we anchored on the Atlantic side and were told we would have two days liberty. The paymaster said we could draw whatever pay we had coming if we wished. I had $50.00 so I assumed that this was plenty. After returning the first night and having prowled all of the night clubs, I and many others had to go to the paymaster and ask for more. All of the clubs had girls who would come to the table, dance with the Marines and engage in lively conversation.  Of course we were expected to buy the girls drinks and, being young and naive, I did not know they were drinking tea and not bourbon.

The young Latin lovely for whom I had been buying drinks suddenly stood up and said “Excuse me, I am on.” In about 3 minutes she came on stage and did a most erotic strip tease on top of a drum. When she returned to the table, I did not know quite what to do. I guess I was like Gomer Pyle.

Having been raised in the South, perhaps the most astounding thing to me was to see black people speaking Spanish. In my town when you get past “Que horas son?” you are bilingual.

We boarded ship and headed for Norfolk, VA. After about 3 days we were off the coast of Virginia Beach where I would later spend happy vacations with Ann and later Bill and Kerry. We disembarked at Norfolk and boarded the train for Camp Lejeune. Since all of the Marines on the train were reservists going home, it was a little difficult to maintain discipline but, once a Marine, always a Marine and I was able to keep my group under reasonable control.

1946 – 1947

ASHEVILLE & UNC

We were all given 60 days leaving so I left for Asheville on the Greyhound bus. After 28 days aboard ship, this was luxury.  A few days later Ann arrived in Asheville with the possible idea of breaking our engagement. As she tells it, when she saw me walking across the station, she decided we were for real. (I was neat and trim at that time since, being in uniform, I did not have to pick out the proper tie to go with my shirt.)

After a visit in Asheville I returned to Lynchburg with Ann and we were married on November 9, 1946. We were both 21 years old. Because Ann has always looked younger than she is (she still does), her sister had to go to the Court House to swear that she was old enough to get a marriage license.

My family came up for the wedding and besides the traditional champagne and wedding cake, we had Virginia country ham on beaten biscuits. At last count my father had eaten about 3 gross. The wedding reception was in Ann's home and it was a beauty. The house was formerly owned by Carter Glass whose family had started the local newspaper. Carter was a senator and is responsible for the Federal Reserve Act. The house was rented but came up for sale a few years later. My wonderful father in law, Warren Simpson Sholes (who was known affectionately as “Bill”) was determined to buy it. He had to be out of town on business and left a friend with power of attorney at the auction. The man decided the bidding had gone too high and let it get away. I am not sure Bill ever got over this although the house he did buy was something special also.

Since I was getting paid for the dance jobs, I had enough in China to keep me in cigarettes and 10 cent beer and therefore I put away a big part of my small salary and had enough for a good honeymoon. Ann wanted to go to Bermuda but, having been overseas for over a year, I wanted to keep my feet in the USA. We went to Washington, DC to re-visit our dating days and then on to New York. We were driving Bill Sholes car. Since they only had one car, I don't know what he did to run his business while we were cruising all over in his car.

I have always been a Jazz fan and at that time 52nd street was a swinging place. Also each hotel and theater and night club had first class orchestra and small groups. We danced to Stan Kenton, Benny Goodman, Gene Krupa , Eddie Condon and listened to June Christy, Billie Holiday, the Ink Spots etc. It was great.

When we were in Billy Rose's Diamond Horseshoe an older gentleman sent us drinks. (People did that for service men at this time). Since that time, I have tried to do the same whenever possible.

We returned to Camp Lejeune where I received my discharge and accepted a permanent commission in the Marine Corps Reserve. Then back to Lynchburg and on to Asheville.

We were a rare couple – both virgins until we married. Ann's chastity was because that was what proper young ladies did at this time. Mine was probably for lack of opportunity and a fear of VD instilled by the Marine Corps training films. But there are many advantages to this situation. For one, you don't have to compare your mate with other encounters.

We rented a room in Asheville next door to my family while I waited to get into a University. I applied to Furman where Hap and Adrian were and was accepted but a week later I was accepted at UNC at Chapel Hill and this had always been my first choice so I was Happy!!!

Because of the GI Bill, all of the colleges in the country were expanding like wildfire. We went to Chapel Hill to find a place to live. All dormitories were for single students and all available houses, apartments and rooms had been rented. The university had established a trailer park but it was full. The only chance was to buy one on the site from someone graduating. We were lucky to find one and it was a palace – 20′ long and about 20 years old. This was before “trailers” became “mobile homes” and although we had running cold water in the sink, there was a common bath house in the middle of the park. Fortunately I did not have to get up in the middle of the night as I now do – Ah, Youth.

Since the next term did not start until January I took a job at my Alma Mater, McIntyre's Fruit Store. I earned $30.00 per week and could have joined the “52/20″ club at $20.00 for doing nothing. The 52/20 was another benefit offered to veterans to help them out until they could find work. It offered $20.00 per week for 52 weeks and all you had to do was to register and show that you could not find work in your field. One of my cousins registered as a snow plow operator and a friend registered as a commercial fisherman, neither occupation existed in Asheville. I preferred to retain my dignity and work, even though it was menial.

I filled in for one dance job with a local band but had to join the union to do it.

In January we left for Chapel Hill and arrived at night with a light snow on the ground. I could not get the kerosene heater lighted so we shivered all night under my Marine overcoat. The next day a neighbor showed me how to light the stove and the heater and life became more pleasant. I started classes and we settled in to being married – and it was fun.

I had many friends and acquaintances there and some of them were in the KA fraternity which was just a block up the street from our trailer. If I came home from class and Ann was not at the trailer, I knew I could find her playing poker at the KA house. Never a dull moment with that lady.

By this time the funds I had accumulated had run out and although the GI bill paid tuition and a small allowance, it would not support a wife. I took a job in the library at night and Ann got a job at a camera shop developing film. This was almost fatal for me.  One of her co-workers was a cute little blonde country girl who was the girl friend of Art Weiner, a star tight end on the football team. Art was about 6′5″ tall and weighed about 250 lbs. Ann bruised her arm one day and when her friend asked how she said “Charlie threw me up against the wall”. The girl was appalled and Ann said “Oh, he does this all the time.” Her friend was prepared to have Art Weiner punch me out until I convinced Ann to tell her that she was kidding.

Our entertainment was mainly events at the University so we were able to hoard enough to have dinner each week end at the Port Hole, the best restaurant in Chapel Hill. Their specialty for dessert was toasted pound cake with ice cream and the aroma of the pound cake permeated the whole restaurant – it was a delightful smell and I still find a dinner in a nice restaurant to be one of life's finest experiences.

We particularly enjoyed the basketball games. This was before integration and, had this not been changed there would have been no Michael Jordon at UNC.

After Biltmore Tech and a full 12 months at Emory and Duke I had only 6 months to go for a degree. I graduated in August with a BS in Commerce. I don't think they offer this degree any more. Usually a degree in commerce with a stress on accounting is a BA but ours had some engineering involved.

I was proud of the BS until it took on a more vernacular connotation in recent years.

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